This is so heartbreaking

My jaw DROPPED, 😩

I read a recent study of mothers’ workplace skills + accomplishments developed through unpaid caregiving and you know what came dead last?

Personal self-care and personal happiness. 😔

And the caption said “hope you feel proud and enjoy your day celebrating your contribution as a worker!”, as the comments section was filled with “Love this!” and “This is amazing!”

𝐈𝐓 𝐃𝐑𝐈𝐕𝐄𝐒 𝐌𝐄 𝐂𝐑𝐀𝐙𝐘 how many women out there would rather trauma bond with each other about how hard shit is, than learn the tools and mindset shifts that would actually make them feel amazing and fulfilled every day – and get them the support and care they deserve from their families and society.

It’s as if everyone is under a spell that women have no choice and HAVE to struggle or sacrifice or swallow unhappiness in order to be “good” moms or wives or acceptable.

𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐒𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐘 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞. 📕

And everyone says “I feel seen” and “You get it.”

It’s almost as if the point is to hold the view and agree and find comfort in the collective dissatisfaction…

Rather than find a solution or make it different.

𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐞.

𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧 – 𝐧𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐠𝐞, 𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐦𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 – 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝.❤️

So let me ask you this – is it better for you to feel the comfort of being just as stuck or frustrated as the women around you?

Or are you ready to drop what isn’t working for you – even if it’s “small” things like being booked back to back and not having enough time for yourself… which ladders up to burnout, resentment, lack of creativity/motivation/income?

One of my clients inside my Wildly Successful Woman program sent our group chat this quote:

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