Why do I always have to be the one?


Have you ever thought “Why do I always have to be the one to…?”

Me too.

It can feel exhausting to change, to grow, to be better, to take care of everything.

I get it.

But I want to offer you a powerful reframe that will take you from feeling put upon to feeling FREE.

✨Don’t change because you have to.
✨Don’t change because if you don’t, no one else will.
✨Don’t do ANYTHING out of obligation.


Do it because you love + honor yourself. ❤️

This shift will change everything. 😍

The life you’re living is a direct result of the choices you’ve made (or ways you’ve given up and let things “happen to you”), the standards you’re holding (or not), the excuses you’re making (for yourself and others), and the boundaries you probably aren’t setting, and the conversations you are (or most likely aren’t) having.

I hear from so many women “Why do I have to be the one to change? I’m tired.”

To which I have to say – WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT?!?

This is why you don’t have what YOU want.

You’re not in a tug of war with your partner or your boss or kids…

But with yourself.

Bc you’re not doing or saying what you really want and then blaming everybody else… when honestly, you don’t know how to do it differently!

And I’m not blaming you – you watched your mom, grandma and every other woman in your life do it to herself too.

But isn’t it time you ended this bullshit and finally got into ALIGNMENT in every part of your life?

I want to show you how to live in a way that honors who you are and what feels good for you, while making your relationships better, your career more fulfilling, your bank account bigger, your marriage more connected and satisfying and s3xy, motherhood feel fun and nourishing for you (not just your kids).

🔥Don’t give up on yourself.

🔥Don’t tell yourself it’s not so bad so you keep accepting less than what you want.

🔥Stop agreeing to do things that aren’t a full bodied yes, thinking that it’s just normal.

It IS normal – but it sucks – and if you’re just so damn tired, this is my invitation to you to open your life and your eyes to a new way that will make you finally feel the way life is supposed to be: GOOD.

Right now.
Grab your free spot inside ALIGNMENT and join a movement of women who are claiming our full-bodied satisfaction – I’ll show you exactly how.

Xx Michelle

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