She came to me in tears 😭

One of my friends came to me in tears.

She felt exhausted and resentful after she spent 4 weeks planning a special family event… putting so much effort and care into every last detail, for her family to enjoy it…

On top of her demanding career.

And how she took care of so many things around the house.

But her husband and family barely acknowledged her effort.

He was even annoyed that she kept asking him for help.

She asked me:

What’s the POINT of doing so much, and pushing herself so hard, and making everything perfect if nobody even appreciated it and even resented her for it?

(And why couldn’t she stop letting it be “good enough” instead of always pushing herself to do more? )

I used to ask myself the SAME thing:

But here’s where I need to set you straight:

Your family isn’t getting in your way.

And life isn’t set up to push and punish you – even when bad things happen.

However, society and the structures around us aren’t set up to work for most women #realtalk

If you look around, the status quo says it’s ok for women to struggle, to feel like they aren’t (doing) enough, to be afraid that if you don’t keep pushing, nothing is going to keep moving ahead.

And that the only way to move forward is to keep doing it like everyone else – according to the “rules” and the “shoulds” – and the pressure you keep putting on yourself (fueled by shame and guilt, no matter how much help you have) to do more, be more, make more, handle more, make everyone else happier.

When the truth is that 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐍𝐋𝐘 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 – 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 – 𝐢𝐬 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐔𝐧𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟™.

𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 – 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐩𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐬𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐨𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐨𝐲𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫.

So you’re feeling your most aligned, powerful, deeply confident, respected, well-boundaried. And everyone is rising to meet you at your next-level.

𝐘𝐨𝐮’𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐲 𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐈𝐭 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐌𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐝™.

But it’s only for women who are committed to being wildly successful in every aspect of their lives and who know that life gets to start working FOR you (instead of you working for everybody else ).

With no guilt or shame or not doing – or being – enough .

And when you incorporate this with the other 2 Pillars of my Have It All Method™ – Unleashing Your Unstoppable Desire (magnetizing exactly what you want instead of managing and doing everything) AND

Revolutionizing Your Relationships (so you are supremely supported + appreciated – especially in your marriage – allowing you to relax into your juicy feminine receiving energy and have more fun)….

Now you’re actually living the dream

Which is why you need to comment “HAVE IT ALL” or DM me right now:

You know there’s a better way where you get to have what you really want – and finally FEEL good every day as you truly enjoy the life you’ve worked so hard to create.

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐛𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐅𝐄𝐂𝐓 – 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐩𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐭.

Can’t wait to chat xx