Get off the hamster wheel!

What would your biggest regret be if this was your last day of life?

I know this is a big question – probably not what you were expecting when you were checking your emails – but we need to talk about this.

See, I was just watching a video from a hospice nurse who said that the most common regret of dying people was:

“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”

It touched me deeply.

I’ve seen the effects of the women in my world who denied themselves what they wanted or how they knew they wanted life to be.

And I know you have too.

Working too hard, doing too much, pushing themselves beyond the brink, denying themselves the ease and fun and enjoyment of life, hurting their marriages, their families – and themselves.

Convinced that you have to just keep pushing and one day things will be better.

But that’s never going to work.

You’re just stuck in a cycle which leads to burnout, resentment, and feeling like you’re in a hamster wheel of life. #realtalk

Instead of waking up excited about everything that’s to come and how good you get to feel as you enjoy what you really want to do.

And there’s a way to have what you want – while the people you love are thriving and your success is growing –  that doesn’t involve sacrificing yourself or your happiness.

Ever.

You’ve still got some years to go, but when people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled.

Most people don’t honor even half of their dreams and die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

Are you making choices that are in alignment for you?

I want to show you how good life gets to be when you do.