So – what’s something you can say “no” to, so you can take care of yourself?
I canceled a meeting that I was really looking forward to this morning.
I just couldn’t do it.
Even though I wanted to – my body wasn’t a “yes”.
My intuition was telling me “babe, you need to slow down and take some time to yourself.”
And I moved through the guilt of putting myself first for no “big” reason, the fear that the other person would think I’m a flake and irresponsible- and I messaged her this truth:
“I’m not feeling the way I want to feel in order to be my best with you.”
Not a lie about some emergency or urgent matter that would “justify” a last minute cancellation and grant me her permission.
Because I want to normalize that it’s ok – and IMPORTANT – for us to say No even if the reason is just because we don’t want to.
What we want (and need) is important enough.
Period.
And that’s how we stay away from resentment and blaming others for why we don’t live and feel the way we want to.
I’m writing this from the bath.
A new client sign-up just came through, like magic, in this moment (although you better believe there is work and passion behind the scenes to make sure everything flows like this in all aspects of my life).
That’s why I’m sharing an example of what it looks like in action.
We have to set up our lives to work for us, or else we’ll always feel disempowered by a system (that you are creating in your own home and family) that isn’t set up to take care of you.
Start at home.
Start with you.
So – what’s something you can say “no” to, so you can take care of yourself?
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