Cut the BS

Think you’re too busy?

You’re right.

Whenever I hear a woman use that explanation, I immediately know she is in resistance or victim mode – and I don’t move the conversation forward.

Because if you’re going to choose to use your time and energy for things that don’t make you happy, that don’t give you energy – and that includes being frustrated with your partner or putting up with things that aren’t exactly what you want –

Then it lets me know that you prioritize things you don’t like instead.